Getting Paid Mistakes to Avoid:The Nine That Cost You
Getting paid mistakes to avoid: nine habits that leave earned money uncollected, from invoicing late to never stopping work, each with the one-line fix today.
The getting paid mistakes to avoid come down to nine: treating collections as admin, invoicing late, wrong invoice details, never asking for a deposit, not chasing the first late payment, chasing only when you remember, opening with an accusation, chasing a dispute, and never stopping work.
The nine getting paid mistakes to avoid
Look at the list again. Not one of these getting paid mistakes is a financial one.
Nobody on it failed at maths. They failed at nerve and at routine. They did not want to ask, so they waited. They did not have a system, so they relied on remembering. That is good news. A system fixes both, and you can build it this week.
Each mistake below leaves earned money uncollected. Every one is avoidable. I will give you the mistake, the real cost, and the fix, in that order, and I will keep it short because you are busy.
Mistake one: Treating collections as admin
Admin is what you do when you have run out of important things. Collections is the cheapest capital you will ever raise.
Raising money costs ownership and takes months. Debt costs interest. Cutting costs capability. Collecting an overdue invoice costs an email and a little discomfort, and the money is already yours. It is also the only source of cash with no downside whatsoever.
The fix: put a half hour in the calendar every month and call it what it is. A review of the cheapest money you have.
Free guide · 22 pagesCollect what you already earned.The Getting Paid Playbook: invoicing, terms and collections, the cheapest capital you will raise.Get the free guide →Mistake two: Invoicing late
The work finished, you moved on, and the invoice went out eleven days later. That is money given away before anyone has done anything wrong.
The fix: decide what event triggers an invoice, and make it happen immediately. Not in a monthly batch that suits your admin rhythm and nobody's cash position.
Mistake three: Getting the invoice details wrong
A missing reference does not get rejected loudly. It sits, invisible, while you assume it is being processed. This is the leading cause of late payment, and no amount of chasing fixes it.
The fix: ask the client at the start how they pay, which entity, which inbox, what reference. Five minutes, once. How to make it easy for clients to pay has the full routine.
Mistake four: Never asking for a deposit
The strongest position is not chasing well. It is not needing to.
People worry that asking looks like distrust. In practice, the request is normal, and the reaction is almost always milder than the fear. You pay for that fear every time you fund a client's project out of your own pocket.
The fix: ask for a deposit on the next job. Just to learn how mild the reaction is. The mechanics are in how to get paid before you start the work.
Mistake five: Not chasing the first late payment
The first late payment sets the schedule for the whole relationship. Pay sixty days late once and hear nothing, and the client has learned what your terms are, whatever the invoice says. Every later invoice follows.
The discipline is cheapest at the very start and gets more awkward to introduce later.
The fix: chase the first one, promptly and politely. It is not being difficult. It is establishing the terms that will govern the relationship, at the only moment establishing them is easy.
Mistake six: Chasing only when you remember
Reminders sent when you remember are erratic, late, and carry whatever mood you were in. Reminders sent on a schedule are consistent and unemotional in exactly the right way.
The fix: automate them, starting before the due date. They then happen on the evenings you are too tired to be brave. Which is most of them.
Mistake seven: Opening with an accusation
Most late payment is a process failure, not an unwillingness. An accusatory message guarantees you will never be told what actually went wrong, because nobody explains an obstacle to someone who has just insulted them.
The fix: open by assuming goodwill. I wanted to check whether anything is holding this up on your side. The escalation steps are in how to chase a late payment.
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If the client believes they do not owe it, or not all of it, this is not a payment conversation. Escalating will make it considerably worse.
The fix: before you escalate, work out which of three situations you are in. Disorganisation, inability or dispute. The remedies are completely different, and only one of them is a collections matter.
Mistake nine: Never stopping work
Continuing to deliver while unpaid is lending more to someone who has not repaid the last loan. It also teaches them your terms are decorative.
The fix: decide where the line is, say it clearly and in advance, then apply it. Pausing work is proportionate and far more effective than another email, but only if you signalled it first.
The nine getting paid mistakes side by side
If you only have a minute, this table of getting paid mistakes is the page to keep.
| Mistake | What it really is | The one-line fix |
|---|---|---|
| Collections as admin | Neglect of cheap capital | A monthly half hour |
| Invoicing late | Routine | Invoice on the triggering event |
| Wrong invoice details | Not asking | Ask how they pay at the start |
| No deposit | Nerve | Ask once, learn it is mild |
| First late payment unchased | Nerve | Chase the first one |
| Chasing when you remember | Routine | Automate reminders |
| Opening with an accusation | Nerve | Assume goodwill, ask what is blocking |
| Chasing a dispute | Diagnosis | Identify the situation first |
| Never stopping work | Nerve | Set the stopping point in advance |
Count the middle column. Nerve and routine, nerve and routine. There is hardly any finance in it.
The mistake underneath the getting paid mistakes
All nine share a root. You made a decision in the moment that you should have made in advance.
In the moment, you avoid the chase because you like them. Or you overreact because you are worried. Neither produces a good outcome, and both are more likely at eleven at night. That is why the ladder, the stopping point and the policy for persistent late payers all get written down before you need them. A written rule is not bureaucracy. It is a way of being calm on a bad evening.
It also explains something odd. Late payment is as much a pattern about you as about your clients. A client who pays late and hears nothing has learned your real terms. So the system you build is not about being tough. It is about being clear, consistently, from the first invoice.
If you already have a persistent late payer, see how to handle a client who always pays late. It is the same discipline applied after the habit has formed.
There is a practical version of this. Pick the worst week you can imagine: a deadline, a poor night of sleep, a customer upset about something unrelated. Now ask what your collections would look like. If the answer is that they would simply stop, the system is still living in your head. Move it onto a schedule, a template and a list, and it survives the bad weeks too. That is the real test of whether you have fixed the mistake or only noticed it.
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Go through the nine. Mark the ones you did last month. Be ruthless.
- Pick the two that cost you the most. Not all nine. Two.
- Fix the routine one first. Invoice timing and automatic reminders are quick wins.
- Do the nerve one next. Ask for a deposit, or chase the oldest invoice today.
- Put the monthly review in the calendar. Overdue list, total owed, how long people actually take.
Watch how long, on average, it takes to get paid, as a number and not a feeling. If it is lengthening, that is one of the earliest warning signs you will get that something is wrong, either with your clients or with your own process.
Fixing the getting paid mistakes is the whole job. It is not the interesting part of the business. It is the part that means you get to keep going.
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Which of the getting paid mistakes costs the most?
Usually treating collections as admin, because it sits underneath the others. If you do not take the cheapest capital you have seriously, you will invoice late, chase erratically and skip the deposit. Fix the attitude and the routine follows.
Is asking for a deposit really normal?
Yes. Deposits are entirely normal, and the fear of appearing to distrust someone is nearly always disproportionate to the actual reaction. People under-ask here more consistently than anywhere else.
How do I know if a late invoice is a dispute?
Ask. A short, friendly question about whether anything is holding it up usually reveals it. If the client believes they do not owe it, or not all of it, stop chasing and move it into resolution.
What if I have made several of these already?
Everyone has. They are failures of nerve and routine, not of finance, so a system fixes them. Start with the oldest overdue invoice, then set up the terms and reminders so the next one is different.
The full method, with the checklists, is in The Getting Paid Playbook, a free 22-page playbook.
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