How to Address Underperformance Clearly:Say It Plainly
How to address underperformance clearly: name the problem, say what must change, offer real support and set a date. A hint is not a warning; clarity is kind.
To address underperformance clearly, say plainly that there is a problem, describe exactly what is not working, say what would need to change, offer real support, and agree a date to assess it. Then actually assess it. A hint is not a warning.
How to address underperformance clearly, and why a hint fails
You've been dropping hints. Admit it.
A raised eyebrow at the late delivery. "Maybe we should be a bit tighter on this." A sigh in the message you sent at eleven at night. You think you've said something. You haven't. You've said something to yourself, in a form only you can decode.
Here is the verdict. If the person you work with is genuinely not delivering, the kind thing is to tell them in words they can't mistake. Not the gentle thing. The clear thing. They feel different, and the difference is the whole topic.
The guide puts it bluntly: people genuinely shocked when it ends were almost always warned in language they couldn't recognise as a warning. Clarity feels unkind. It is the kind option. People can act on a clear statement. They can do nothing with a hint.
First, check it is really underperformance
Before you sit anyone down, ask what kind of problem you've got. Most problems at this size are not capability problems. They are alignment problems.
- They misunderstood what mattered.
- They're optimising for the wrong outcome.
- The work turned out to be different from what you described.
Nearly all of that is recoverable if you raise it early. Almost none of it is recoverable in month six, when habits are set and both sides are carrying frustration. So the first question isn't "how do I confront this?" It's "have I said what good looks like, specifically, and have I said it to them?"
If the answer is no, you don't yet have an underperformance problem. You have an expectations problem, and it's yours. Fix that first. That is what writing down what good looks like is for.
If the answer is yes, they know the standard and still aren't meeting it, carry on.
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It has a shape. Five parts, in order.
- Say there is a problem. Early in the conversation. Not buried in the sixth minute under a pleasant opening. "I want to talk about something that isn't working."
- Describe what is not working, specifically. The same rules as any feedback: a moment, an example, behaviour not character. Two or three instances now, if you have them, because this is a pattern.
- Say what would need to change. What does good look like here? Be concrete enough that either of you could point at it.
- Offer real support. Not just a requirement. What will you do? More time, a clearer brief, a regular check-in, an example of the standard.
- Agree a period, and a date. Then keep the date.
Miss any one and it breaks. No date: it drifts forever. No support: it's an ultimatum. No specifics: it's a mood. No clear statement of the problem: it's the hint again, now with a meeting attached.
Two ways this goes wrong
The guide names the failure modes. There are two, and they are opposites.
| Failure | What it looks like | What it costs | The clear alternative |
|---|---|---|---|
| The vague warning | A hint, a comment in passing, "we should tighten things up". | The person is genuinely shocked when it ends, because nothing they heard sounded like a warning. | "This is a problem. Here is what isn't working and what has to change." |
| The indefinite process | Always "keeping an eye on it". No end date. No decision. | Both of you in limbo. They can't relax, you can't move on, and the work suffers. | "We'll look at this together on this date. I'll tell you honestly where it stands." |
Look at what the two failures to address underperformance have in common. Both avoid the discomfort of a plain statement. One avoids it at the start. The other avoids it at the end.
What "real support" means when you run the business alone
This is the part people skip, and it's the part that makes the conversation fair.
You are a one-person business with a first contractor or hire. You can't send them on a course or hand them to a mentor. What you can offer is mostly your own time and your own clarity.
- A clearer brief for the next piece of work.
- An example of what the standard looks like in practice.
- A short regular check-in during the period, so they aren't guessing.
- Removing something that's in their way, if you set it.
Be honest with yourself about whether you have the hours. If you can't give it any time, say so, and don't promise it. Support you offer and then don't deliver is worse than none. And ask yourself the awkward question: is any part of this your doing? Sometimes it is. A constraint you set. A brief that changed. Better to find that out now than to discover it in a dispute.
Write it down
After the conversation, put a few lines on paper. What was discussed. What was agreed. What happens next. The date.
This is not about building a case. It's memory, and it's fairness. A written trail of feedback given and support offered is what makes a later difficult decision fair rather than a surprise. They should be able to read it and recognise every line. If they'd be surprised by something in it, it wasn't said clearly enough in the room.
The same applies to the feedback that came before. This conversation should never be the first they have heard of anything significant. If it is, go back a step and have the smaller conversations. Why delayed feedback costs more explains why that debt gets so expensive.
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On the date you agreed, sit down and look. Has it changed? Did the support help? What is the honest position?
If it has improved, say so, specifically. That matters as much as the warning did.
If it hasn't, you now have a different conversation. It's a fit conversation, and the guide is clear that it's a separate one: rare and serious, not folded into feedback and not held alongside a pay discussion. You'll have given them clarity, support and time. Whatever you decide next, you'll have been fair, and you'll know it. If it's your very first hire, remember a decision to end an arrangement is yours and it is not a failure of the practice; the practice is what makes it an honest decision.
The temptation at this point is to extend. One more month. One more chance. Do it only if something real has changed. Otherwise you're back to the indefinite process, with a longer history.
Address underperformance separately from money and goals
Two quick rules, because they get broken exactly here.
Don't mention pay in this conversation. Feedback delivered in a pay discussion is heard only as justification for the number. It corrupts both.
And don't point to missed objectives as proof. If the goals you set feed how you assess someone, they'll start setting safe targets and hiding bad news. Goals are for what should be achieved. This conversation is about how the work is being done. The distinction is in feedback, development and pay conversations.
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Think of the one person you've been hinting at.
- Write down in one sentence what is not working. If you can't, you aren't ready.
- Check they know what good looks like. If not, start there.
- Pick the support you can honestly give.
- Choose a date to assess, and put it in the calendar.
- Have the conversation this week. Start with: "There's a problem I want to be clear about."
It will feel disproportionate to the size of the business. It isn't. The cost of hinting for another quarter is far larger.
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How do I tell someone they are underperforming without being harsh?
Be plain, not cold. Say there is a problem, describe what is not working with real examples, say what would need to change and offer support. Harshness is about character. Clarity is about behaviour and a way forward.
How long should the improvement period be?
Long enough for a real change, short enough to matter. The guide does not set a figure. What it insists on is that you agree a period with them and that you actually assess it on the date.
What if I cannot offer much support when I address underperformance?
Say so honestly and offer what you can: a clearer brief, an example of the standard, a short check-in. Do not promise support you will not deliver. Empty promises are worse than modest, real ones.
Is this the same as deciding whether to keep working together?
No. That is a separate, rarer conversation about fit. Clear feedback about a problem comes first, with support and a date. Only after you have assessed it honestly does the fit question arise.
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